*Alachia's Trek to her Car from the Kite Festival via google maps:
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~Closing Song
John Mayer- Lenny (Stevie Ray Vaughan)
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Binaural Recording Track: (in case you're wondering where we "are" in this Episode)
This week we're in a park next to a road.
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Listening to this episode I was thinking/wondering how much of someone's disinclination to be involved with another is based on perceived effort.
You talked a lot about check-boxes and thresholds, and finding one thing that is a deal breaker. Jeppy was saying that he had a lot of openness because he is interested in people and their diversity. Maybe in his case (or someone like him), he sees a payoff for the effort he may perceive that he will have to put into that relationship.
I wonder if some people, though, avoid others (one of those people who have checked that box they don't like) because they think, 'Oh this will be too hard.' That the objection is not necessarily the subject matter of the box, but rather the effort they may have to put in with dealing with that person.
We're in a time of so many choices, that we pick the ones that we like the most, but also the ones that will cost us the least effort. I am thinking that is extending to relationships to a greater and greater degree.
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